You have hit upon one of the truths of life, perhaps without even realizing it. That is, if you don't do something about it, you will regret it for the rest of your life. I can attest to this principle from personal experience. In my life, I allowed many girls to slip through my fingers before I developed enough confidence to face the opposite sex one-on-one. (On the lighter side, I can tell you there are certain relationships I eventually regretted initiating.)
One thing I learned is to trust my instincts. I often found after reflecting back, sometimes years later, on situations or conversations that made me think, "Hmmm... Does this mean she likes me?" the answer was always a resounding "Yes, you moron! She did like you! Too bad you can't do anything about it now because she... (check all that apply) got married/moved away and disappeared/got a job in another country/joined a convent/became a lesbian." Time waits for no man, not even a man in love.
The lesson here being, "learn to trust your instincts." If you think she likes you, she does. Act like she does. Talk to her as if it is a foregone conclusion that she likes you. Trust me on this... It's a lot easier to talk to a girl if you're sure she's interested than if there's a big doubt in your mind. She likes you! She wants you to talk to her!
Sunday, April 12, 2009
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